Best. KCgardengrl ⢠8 yr. ago. Yes, that happens to anyone with depression. Your mind starts telling yourself you can't do it for. I've made plans many times in the last few years and flaked at the last minute for whatever reason. Occasionally, I try to make myself go anyway, and feel better after.
Maybe I'm just super old school but fuuuuucccccckkkkkkk that noise, OP. The way I see it, real friends are also friends of your relationship. They don't invite you to do single people things. They are respectful of the fact that you'll naturally prioritize your partner. Your gfs friends are far less the problem than your gf tolerating their crap.Although I donât cancel plans on the last minute to give her a dose of her own medicine, I started NOT making plans with her unless itâs a group thing. In that way, even if she cancels on the last minute, I can still do as planned, without her. Sheâs frustrated that âI seem to be very busy latelyâ, but my response is : Yes, I am.
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